How a child faces social problems due to family carelessness and what you should do then - some examples

As a teacher I have been in luck of knowing all types of children more or less closely. So far as I have experience about children, which is dependent on guess, but not scientific. We know that children grow up in nature. A child takes both qualities of good and bad activities in which family it lives. Some child becomes soft-hearted and some, much more naughty. In this case, that soft-hearted child does not take the qualities of its family if they are bad as well. On the other hand, this concept may not work for the naughty one. From what I have realized in most of the children I can come to a conclusion that actually they do take the characteristics of their parents. When a child scolds someone senior to it, shows selfishness in its work and tells a lie without feeling any hesitation, I can understand that it learns something at home, which is false to it, notices something bears the signal of selfishness. We have seen a child’s parents deal with its grandparents badly, which is not acceptable to anybody. But the child may also apply that against them in future, which they forget often. I have also seen such a child as shows the same attitudes to others as its parents do. So far as I know if a child does not learn to  maintain discipline, its parents are basically guilty of that. When a baby grows in its mother’s womb, it takes some characteristics of mother and we can see them after its being born. I don’t know if its any scientific explanation in favor of that has been found. Some believe it from the view-point of religion. A child named Sarfuddin in a country of the continent of Africa, at the time of its remaining in the womb of mother learnt some parts of the holy Quran. Nobody could find out the mystery of such a matter till now. So it is a proof that a child can learn something in its womb. At the first stage of my writing I told that such an exceptional characteristic might be seen in some child. I am telling again that a child bears the characteristics of only its parents. Recently I have met a man who is very dreadful and can kill anyone easily. On the other hand, his father is a pious man who says his prayers in mosque in time. I have never seen him quarrel with anybody or be involved in any bad activities. So it can be a question how the boy has possessed of such bad character. Can science stand an argument in favor of it? Last week I read a piece of news in a newspaper that a son of a police officer had wounded his father and his two sisters with a sharp knife. The boy reads in class nine. He was asked by some reporters about the incident and he admitted his guilt without hiding anything. He also said that his father took bribes and was involved in unsocial activities. He was forced to do such a hated work. The teachers of his school couldn’t believe it why a brilliant, gentle student like him committed such a hateful crime. In this case, which type of family environment made him do it? In spite of his father being a hateful person, the boy is not so. Mother of the boy is famous for good behavior in her area. We know the environment in which man lives, from there he can take both characteristics- bad and good. But man likes to learn something bad. It is a natural attitude of man. When a child begins to grow up, it follows the characteristics of its family and kith and kin. Indeed children like to imitate more than elders. I have a baby girl. When I go out with it, it tries to do what I do. Then I smile at it.  My daughter talks to others as I do. I have one more experience in life about a child. I often saw the child be attentive to its lessons. But she did not make any noise in the classroom. I was more curious to know something about the child. What I knew about her later was very much painful. I heard her parents quarrel with each other at home, which struck her very much. There was no happiness in their conjugal life. When the child has learnt to realize everything, from then she sees her parents do so. At first the child was afraid of them and cried, but now she is far from merry. She doesn’t want to go to school, but she is forced to do it. The evil deeds of her parents are affecting the child more. Last of all we must admit that to grow crops clay is needed. A child is like that. If a child’s mind is hard, it will be impossible to get her back to a normal life. In that case everything may end in smoke. Please drop by http://www.neobux.com/?r=rahmatllh555